I've learnt that.....

Everyone has his own way in life and his own way to live in this life. And imitating someone else may get you somewhere, but it won't be the best for you. So believe in yourself and believe that your way, style, thinking, experience that you reap throughout your life  is unique and will make you shine.

We live in a very judgmental community. So distinguish between feedback and judging.... For judgmental comments all what you can do is close your ears and do what you want. And for feedback you should listen but it shouldn't make you less confident about yourself. And one day those who judge you will understand that they were wrong.